An eternal debate
Mythago has a post on the eternal question, "Does size matter?"
Every time someone talks about this, I remember hanging out with my mom and her friends one day. One woman was talking about her ex-husband, and this is what she said on the subject.
"Oh yeah, he had a huge cock." A beat. "Bless his heart, he had no idea what to do with it."
Frankly, I think she had the last word on the subject.
posted by Amanda Marcotte at
24.1.05
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Well, as a 19 year-old virgin female (yeah, I know I'm pathetic), I pose the same question to the more sexually experienced women in the audience; does it really matter or will it matter during my first time? Thank you. I feel like an idiot.
1/24/2005
No, dear, not pathetic--I was in the same boat a little more than a year ago. I found sex to be uncomfortable for at least the first ten times, but then I hadn't even been comfortable using tampons beforehand. Really, you may want to start with his fingers first and do that for a few times beforehand, to stretch you out; and you may want to have an orgasm before he enters you for the first time to relax your muscles.
1/24/2005
Yes, I was poking fun at myself ;-) I know the definition of a feminist is not a woman who has hundreds of different partners in one month or none at all. Part of being a feminist is choosing your own sexual destiny. I chose to be celibate because it is less "hectic". Well, to me anyway, others of course may disagree. Boring and lonely, but less hectic.
My decision is in NO way based on that "abstinence only" crap or "wait until you're married". I've chosen NOT to marry (nor have any kids). I just want to wait until I find a male partner I trust enough to be intimate with.
1/24/2005
It needs that 'bless his heart,' doesn't it?
(Which is not to say that size is inversely proportional to skill, but yeah, there are a lot of guys who are convinced that size is *all* you need. Uh, no.)
1/25/2005
I was another woman who didn't even use tampons before having intercourse the first time. And here is how it went: "Everything but" had been wonderful. Intercourse hurt like ^*&$, was barely starting to include mild pleasure when it was over, and right afterward, the guy said he needed time apart. For this, I risked pregnancy? (OK, not a high risk of pregnancy, since I was on the Pill, but still.) After that relationship ended for good, I was really wanting to never have intercourse again until I had a guy who actually wanted to raise a kid with me.
I'd second both the recommendation of fingers first and the recommendation of having an orgasm right before that first time. I can't imagine that size would be a bonus when starting, but then again, I'm pretty sure I would have found even a micro-penis painful.
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1/25/2005
After having a boyfriend who was so widely endowed that I had to go two days without nookie after each encounter because I was so sore, I'd like to say that size REALLY isn't everything.
And the everpresent "use more lube" advice? Oh, please.
1/25/2005
Great post!
I've had boyfriends with pretty big cocks, but my current boy is about 8 1/2 inches long and thick too. Fortunately he's aware of the length and (unlike some other guys I've been with) is extremely careful to avoid that nasty bashing against the cervix motion. That hurts so fucking much.
But yeah, the size (especially the thickness) is definitely a bonus and thankfully he knows how to use it.
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