The elusive male contraceptive
Well, it's time again for more promises that a shot that stops men temporarily from making sperm is just around the corner. There are people I know who are likely to avail themselves of this, or so they say. Mostly I'm thinking of single men who are terrified of getting a girl pregnant and want back-up for condoms or couples for whom the birth control pill just isn't working. Of course, that's just what they say. Until the damn shot comes out, there's no way to know how many men will actually bother to use it.
The common wisdom has been that men don't care about contraception and won't use it. Evidence for this is that tubal litigation is a more popular form of birth control than vasectomy, though I understand that this is slowly changing. I don't think that it's mere unwillingness on men's parts, actually. I think that our society is undergoing a bona fide paradigm shift. Men didn't use to bother with contraception, because it was conceptualized as a Woman's Thing. But in the age of AIDS, condom use has skyrocketed and men have grown accustomed to the idea of taking on sexual responsibility. For some segments of society now, the idea of a woman getting a tubal litigation when her man could get a vasectomy, which is a far less invasive procedure, is purely ridiculous. This is the audience for these shots.
Or maybe I'm crazy to think that people would be enthusiastic. I know I've talked about this before, but the subject interests me. Any comments about whether y'all think that men would use these shots and women would trust them to do so?
18 Comments:
I think a lot of married and single men in a long-term type relationship would prefer this to a vasectomy...less pain, more control in case of a change of mind....same reasons a lot of women use the Pill. I don't see single men who are not in a relationship using this though; there's still too much cultural emphasis on birth control being the woman's responsibility.
I don't know how it is in Texas, but here in Illinois just about every man I know who's already had children has had a vasectomy. They are very popular here. The standard scenario is, have two or three children, then get the vas. Of course, some of these guys get divorced, then remarried, then go back to get a reversal...I think the shot would replace the vasectomy for those guys. The only women I know who've had tubal ligations have had them in conjunction with a cesarean section....kinda "hey, while you're in there..."
11/12/2004
My bethrothed & I saw this on the news last night. I told her it sounded great, but I wouldn't really want to be one of the first to use it before we had kids. "Now you know how women feel" she said. "I've been a guinea pig all my life."
Like La Lubus pals, we decided I'd get snipped, basically to share the burden of BC. I've got to be quick though. One brother-in-law had his uroligist cancel his appointment. Before they could reschedule, my sister got pregnant again.
11/12/2004
I definitely think it's just another one of those subculture things. Here no one bats an eye at the idea of a vasectomy, which is what my boyfriend and I went with. But back home in El Paso, most people I know eventually go with tubal litigation or (shudder) a hysterectomy. Massive surgery on women is considered a lesser thing than something minor on a guy's "manhood".
11/12/2004
I would, but I'm fanatical enough (and straight forward enough) to insist on Double Dutch as it is. I already worry about probabilities... 99% (pill) + 80% (condom) is not 100%, which is what I'd really like. The consequences (of failure) would gravely alter both of our lives. Every bit of reinforcement is good.
--Scott
11/12/2004
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