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Women and men cheat in roughly equal numbers, and by most standards, men cheat slightly more. However, this is only an emergency situation requiring drastic measures like abandoning career prospects and submitting to humiliating guilty-until-proven-innocent paternity testing when women do it, according to the "we only want men to be equal" crowd that's making a fuss at feministing and volsunga.
At feministing, the story is a new twist on an old line of bullshit--that men who want subordinate wives don't want that out of sexism. Oh no, they are hapless victims of their maleness. Of course, this argue relies on women's powerlessness, since in the past when a group has been marked as naturally defective they tend to be enslaved. But now you have the dominant group arguing that they need their dominance because they are naturally defective. It's headache-inducing.
The new twist on the "all in the genes, ladies" excuse is that men look for wives who don't excel at work because they are afraid that this means that women will cheat. Man, anything but admit that it might have something to do with a sexist culture, huh? You gotta admit, if you can get people to swallow it, it's a hell of an excuse--women with ambition are officially sluts now. It's genetic, ladies. Can't help it.
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The whole point of the article is to demonstrate that women are evil, lying Jezebels. Of course, if I was asked such a weird question as, "If you got pregnant by someone other than your boyfriend, would you lie about it?" I would go through some weird contortions. Well, let's see. I wouldn't be cheating. But I guess if I was, then I'm already lying so why quit now? Luckily for the hysterical men that are swinging this around, they didn't bother to survey men, which might uncomfortably demonstrate that lying, especially in hypothetical situations, is a common human behavior.
I know, I'm being unfair. Why should men and women be compared as if they were members of the same species?
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